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Family is for future security. We can define family means, “formation of an institution after marriage to implement a legal yardstick”. To be more precise it means, a group of people united for future security who can legally implement certain majors in society for the benevolence purpose. Hence, the members of family must follow certain social rules for smooth running of family life. The atmosphere of the family must be very calm without high expectation, as expectation pollutes relation. While inside the family life, one must give prior importance to the psychology of all members, which should be free from hypocrisy. One should be guided by his conscience i.e. VIVEKA while taking any critical decision; because, VIVEKA always stands for righteousness and can create right identity of human. One must try to have his own identity; because, everybody is an individual.

One should not that collectivity inside the family must be preserved; but, at the same time individuality must not ignored; because, when individual identities are united together, it can create a strong collective identity and thus, it can create a brand. Thus, it can create example for others.

Small matters must not be taken in to consideration, while communicating their feeling to each other. Principle of rejection must not be the basic character stick of the family life. Principle of self-rejection must be controlled in order to control complicated rejection. Mental peace must be given priority to monitor peace. Thought, peace and positive features must be with the family members. Positive thought should flow in mind every time. For this, positive atmosphere must be created inside the family through different kind of ritual and customs through religious books.

While smoothening relation in the family female members of the family should not be treated inferior. They should be socially empowered with a dignified status. They should have their own identity instead of following the footprints of their respective husbands. While executing the family law everyone should be conscious for each other sentiment; because, sentiment and psychology study become more effective in the family than legal procedure. Everyone should realize regarding his/her social responsibility without inviting unnecessary clamor for no reason. Over target sometimes creates confusion in the family. Hence, target either must be minimized or within one’s rich. To avoid excess stress leisurely recreation activities must be encouraged in the family at regular interval.  

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Success is a system of life that comes to the human systematically throughout his life; it is just a journey of life. It renews the experiences every time. It is a kind of struggle against odds and obstacles of life. Every experience of life is a symbol of success, no matter how one gains or loses. It is just a litmus test of one’s ability, which needs interest, initiation, inspiration and intuition. One must cultivate his passion and potentiality with right information only. Because only through right information, our plan, program, perseverance and practice can settle down on a right platform. We should have continuity, curiosity and capability to get success. Cultivation of past experience with present socio-psychological support help us to supersede situation while achieving success.

Proposal, preference, protection and promotion follow each other while thriving for success. Caution and caring enhances our calculative capacity of the mind. Hence, we need to pass through analysis while questing success.

Success is an art of living that denotes the present scenario of life carefully with a sense of fear psychosis attainment. While thriving for success one must consider the importance of an ideology and its right application too. Because through right application only sense of appreciation generates in the human. Right application and appreciation help for procurement. Here, procurement refers to gradual progress through experience. Because, every bit of experience heals the human in a pyramidal form. It needs both social and moral security, failing which the human enters into the world of despair. Hence, the human needs to cultivate a sense of satisfaction through all kind of security around him.

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Attaining the highest goal of life is a challenge because one needs to accept the hard truth of life to attain the highest goal set before him. Accepting the hard truth in real sense needs a lot of courage and care. These capabilities keep him away from chaos and confusion. It systematizes the thought process and generates peace of mind in the human. In this state of mind, only one can accept the hard truth of life in real sense; or else he discovers himself in a cacophonic situation. Once we accept the truth with our moral and mental courage, our willpower acts faster than before and makes us stronger, determined, devotional and decisive to stand against all the odds of life.

Many great men of history had experienced this in life to attain the highest goal. More important is that their experience and experiments were materialized during their lifetime only. We have several other examples too in this connection. Buddha and Mahavira got their enlightenment through buddhattva and kaibalya gyana. 

At this stage of life, the human becomes the God due to the self-transformation process.  Here the human activities more or less become benevolent. Again, one can realize it better in silence only. Because silence is the symbol of beauty and beauty is the truth. The human can cultivate all his positive energy at this stage of life for the benevolence of others. Our state of absolutism supersedes here over our negative thoughts and leads us towards the success of life.

This success is a kind of noble achievement that one needs to take care of. Because only through this, one can reach millions through his thought vibration. It needs no teacher nor any propagator. Only our will power makes us progress on the path of success.

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“Duhkheshwanudvignamanah Sukheshu vigataspruhah
vitaragabhayakrodhah sthitadhirmuniruchyate” .
Happiness is a mental concept that comes through realization, because, only through
realization, reformation comes in the human. Ultimately, reformation generates happiness.
Again, it comes through our honest efforts, no matter how we got our success. Because, it
never counts one’s degree of success or failure. Honest effort is a kind of sacred journey that
takes the humankind through the state of absolutism while initiating our potentiality. It
protects us against all kind of odds and obstacles of life. Hence, happiness and absolutism go
together. The Buddha got his Buddhatwa after several attempts, which is a kind of happiness.
So did Mahavira through the ‘Kaivalya gyana’.
In both the cases, they had their honest effort to attain the absolute state of mind. They did
not bother for their rate of success or failure throughout their dedicated journey. Hence,
happiness comes through dedication, determination and devotion.
The human history has cultivated these three ‘D’s for happiness in several ways, but never
had noticed or calculated its outcome. Because, outcome follows the effort always, which is
otherwise known as ‘happiness’.
Again, happiness is a momentary experience that transcends the human into a state of
ecstasy through thought vibration only. It travels faster than the speed of light and spreads
like perfume in and around us and refreshes our feelings. It is a kind of thought therapy. Many
great souls like Vivekananda, Ramakrishna and Dayananda had experienced it through their
life span only by virtue of their service to the humankind.
Happiness is a science of body and mind. Here, the body exists but the thirst extinguishes.
Therefore, it is a state of ‘Nirvana’ or ‘Salvation’. Here, one feels ‘all in one’ and ‘one in all’.
Perhaps, this initiated the concept of ‘Vasudhaiva kutumbakam’ in the hoary past.
Happiness denotes a subjective appreciation of life by an individual without even a stated
obvious objective. Although the study of happiness and subjective well-being has thrived over
the few decades, the concept of happiness has been elusive since humanity started to tinker
its brain. It is an end rather than a means as well as a self-sufficient element to exist itself.
One can frame it as an essential ingredient of life’s canvas, which slowly paints us as we grow
along. In addition, without the grasp of happiness, however, little chunks, one would not have
a complete sense of growth. A few feelings like fulfillment and altruism give a glimpse of what
happiness senses like and it further makes the human expand. Hence, ‘Happiness’ in short, is
expansion.
Our culture fills everyone only with this concept of happiness. Hence, to realize it, one must
be free to act independently as dependency seizes happiness of the human very often.
Independency is a kind of spirited energy that mobilizes our thoughts to reach others’ openly
with all positive ideas. It reaches everybody like the fragrance of a flower, but dependency
contracts our thoughts and kills us every moment with negative thoughts. Again, happiness
is a process of mind-blowing activity through which, we fill others with good thoughts without
reaction. Here, action is more important than reaction. Therefore, we can define it as a
unilateral attainment and patience-bearing attitude of the human.
‘Happiness is a divine quality that fills us with bliss and blessings. It is God-gifted too’.
It fills us with the sense of reality and renovation. It reconstructs our mindset with fruitful
thoughts. It energizes us with its noble sway. Happiness is a symbol of One’s nobility. It
initiates one on the path of progress, prosperity and preponderance. Sometimes, it comes
through usual activity and sometimes through special one. Chaitanya got it through ‘bhakti
Rasa’, which consisted of love, song and dance. It is the degree of one’s concentration level,
which emits its spirit in and around the social system. One has to enjoy the spirit through
feelings. One has to explore its divinity through self-analysis and socio-psychological
phenomenon that revolves round our personality.
“Happiness and personality always go together. It comes through one’s facial expression.
Hence, it is an index of the humanity and expresses one’s positive achievements”.
The purpose of happiness could be to elevate, expand and emerge our inner-selves into the
realm of utter realizations of the simplicities that crafts life as it is. We have been trying to
run after, rush into and hurry at the sheer feeling of it, but it might surprise us that how simply
enough could we attain happiness, only if we intend to do so. The underlines of happiness lie
in heart, mind and soul- and to find a way to it, we must find our own internal quest.
Let us enjoy it through our hearts.

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Desire is a call of the heart that comes out of one’s perseverance. It is the energy source and a symbol of initiation, reformation and renovation of the human mind with enough opportunity to access freely and openly. But it should move on a right direction, failing which it brings social catastrophe along with mental one. Hence, one should be very careful while putting it on a right track. When it is pervaded our determination turns into destruction, devastation and demolition. Our constructive energy source is misfired on the intellectual horizon without bearing any kind of spiritual progress. At this stage, it follows comparison and competition in and around us.  It causes mental violence. Peace withers away under this situation. Pervaded desire runs like a horse after undesirable economic benefits. It takes the human from real ambition of life and success becomes an apparent truth of life. The human is surrounded by maya or illusion. State of absolutism is never realized when our desire is pervaded because absolutism needs cultivation of spiritual energy, which cannot be supplied to the mind at this stage. No doubt, desire is a weapon to win others but it needs caring capability and courage, failing which the human mind is put in chaos and confusion.

Hence, to keep our mind and heart free from cacophonic situation we need to cultivate all our constructive desires in right time and in right place. But one cannot fulfill all his desires as required from time to time; because its fulfillment is associated with several ancillary factors. Hence, one’s desire must be independent, initiative and free from illusion.