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IS OUR MIND A NATURAL SATELLITE? 

Our mind is definitely a natural satellite. It receives information, computes and sends them to different organs of the living creature to functions smoothly. It collects maximum information from the natural surrounding throughout the day. It nourishes and preserves the best information for future uses and leaves the worst. This process of collecting and preserving information systematically is a continuous natural phenomenon of the world, since the creation of living being. Through the process of evolution, our mind has developed. The evolutionary mind has created many things both seen and unseen. The former rushed the world of today, but the later acted like under current silently. The former enriches us materially, but the later one is for the spiritual progress of the world. All materials come under the category of seen creations and love, emotion and feeling etc. come under the category of unseen one.

Now, let us see, what is the real medicine of the mind? We all know that spiritual progress is today’s cry of the world. The present has miss-tracked the youth. Hence, they need to be brought to the right track, which is possible only through the spiritual progress of the world. The present world is full of different luxurious articles that divert the attention of the youth from spiritual progress. Hence, they very often commit crime theft etc. to full fill their desires. Thus, they cannot participate in the constructive activity of the world. They consider the advice and suggestion of the old as unnecessary and thus, disturbed spiritually. Hence, without spiritual progress the real aim of the life is miss-compassed.    

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Honesty and the truth are like twin brothers. They always associate themselves with BRAHAMACHYRA and AHIMSA.  BRAHMACHARYA is a learning stage and the AHIMSA is the applied stage. They coordinate intellectual and psychical aspect of the human being always. It is a kind of emotional level that one has to justify in life through a balancing process. This balancing process is a part of the karmic account of human, where we see the reflection of the truth and honesty. Because one’s external reflection is directly proportionate to the internal thought process.

When these two mismatched our actions appear as false. Hence, one should not be mere adviser without being practical in life, because, by being an adviser only, one cannot prove the truth and honesty in the right time.

One must realise and respect the value of life while taking together the truth and honesty. One must understand the union or togetherness of the truth and honesty through a right kind of emotional communication. This is invisible but one can experience it in silence. Contemplation helps one to nourish these qualities in the human. Sometimes false promises take them away from the human and thus, in their absence brutality appears in the human. One cannot major them by price. One cannot purchase them even in the market. These are our internal calls that strengthen us from the moral point of view. Our spiritual horizon moves in an upward direction when the both go together; here, one can congratulate himself for his success in true sense failing which he may get several congratulations from other based on false fabrication without any valid ethic. They always stand by us through religious rituals only. We always know them by PRABRUTI but not by VRIT. Hence, let’s allow them to go together.     

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A temple is a place of UPASANA, where we reform our thoughts essential to make ourselves powerful, which makes our life smooth everywhere. Here, we learn a set of rule and realise the truth essential to materialise during our lifetime only. It is a place of progression through which we realise the nature and formlessness of the God in a real sense. It is a place of concentration through self-learning process. Here, we learn about the divine love, essential to cultivate for the human. It never encourages PRATIKA PUJA, where we see different forms of the God. In ancient time people used to go there for self-realization only. It is a place of the energy source that makes us potential to fight against our odds and obstacles through formlessness, which we called SUNYABADA. Sages and saints used this place for cultivating their thoughts for social benevolence. It feels us with monotheism principle that deals with human values. It feels with the essence of love too. It is a place of human understanding, ANURAGA and toleration. All our anxieties come down once we reach here. It teaches us, only through self-effort one get success in life. Success and solution follow each other here. We realise about the divine power within us its premises. It is a place of strength and unity through group life. Hence, devotees unite here to reciprocate each other for the cause of social benevolence. Greeting to all irrespective of caste, creed and religion are the basic feature of a temple. It is a symbol of protection, because, once one reaches here, an unknown divine source of energy encourages to go ahead. Hence, in ancient time people used to go there to attain perfection to fight against internal evils for a greater cause. It was a place of inspiration then. 

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The human mind is, in fact, a flexible spiritual fix deposit sheet that one can encase at any time as per his requirement. We call it spiritual empowerment of human mind, which we can divide into three categories, such as- SATVIK, RAJASIK and TAMSIK category. Accordingly, three groups of people emerge in our social set up. All these categories of people act in two ways- positive and negative ways. While playing their role in society they draw different types of information by encasing their flexible deposit sheets. They apply their spiritual knowledge for both the purposes- positive and negative. Hence, different Vedas came into existence to fulfil their personal as well as social needs. Rituals, gospels and magic science etc. too came into being for these purposes only.

This deposit sheet sometimes acts as power hub. We draw power from this hub whenever required. We call this process empowerment of the mind. One’s strong determination power helps him to empower the mind. This empowerment when acts for the social benevolence super human comes into existence, which we call ‘The God’, failing which demons appear on this earth. History is full of examples of these battles between divinity and devils. However, in every case, one needs enormous mental strength to empower himself, because, ultimately the ignited soul has to do the needful. But, here one should remember that it is difficult to climb the mountain, it is very difficult to be there on the top; but, it is very easy to come down to the foot of the mountain. Hence, one needs careful consideration while utilising his flexible spiritual deposit sheet, failing which there would be chaos on this earth.   

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Suppressed psychology is a kind of negative energy source that prohibits our thought process; as a result, one cannot express himself freely and perpetually before others. Two factors are there for one’s suppressed psychology. Those are- SUKHMA AHAM BHABA and PARISTHITI (situation or surrounding) one lives in.  In both the cases, LAJA and BHAYA (shame and fear) play a great role for non-expression. To be clearer, one becomes non-expressive when he/she does not feel someone his/her own and faithful. Here, sense of insecurity rules over him. He/she becomes more conscious unnecessarily while expressing him/her rightly. The situation never allows him/her to be upon sometimes.

We usually express ourselves through ten INDRIYAS and ONE MANA; but, in adversity, our MANA cannot fight against obstacles come in the way of progress. It generates a sense of insecurity. Moreover, when one’s thought never goes for a welfare purpose, one becomes suppressed. One’s right knowledge, the right choice and right action initiate his/her thought process for welfare activity; but, one should apply this in a right time, in a right place and before a right person; because, it helps us for right evaluation. Impartiality makes one bold and fearless while expressing his thoughts. Universalism (BASUDHAIVA KUTUM BAKAM) helps one for expressing his thought in a right platform. Those who cannot surrender their feelings cannot express themselves freely and thus, invites depression in them that finally becomes a great hindrance to their mental progress. Hence, while concluding, we can say-

“Mat ghumao bhaya se mala,

Shanti ke badle wah deta jwala;

Nirbhik ho ke bandh le rista,

Khud me khud kyun tu rota.”

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The Veda is the outcome of the cosmic force that binds the universe with a kind of positive beliefs system. It symbolises a sign of victory over the vanquished.  It denotes our expansion against all contraction. It is a symbol of devotion but not deterioration and above all, it is a source of aspiration, but not aversion. It proves principles without science. Its laws are systematically set up in a hierarchical order that never denounces experiences and experiments of the time. It has come to us and transmits its sources or principles to the posterity silently and thus, has influenced people of different sects being uncontroversial. It rolls down on three dimensional plain- past, present and future and thus, synthesises thoughts of different times to produce positive energy cycles that encircle the entire universe to save the human race from peril.

It's value-based essential determined empathies affirm us to go for a secular social system; but, it needs a right analysis of human mind, failing which its basic ideas would be wrongly interpreted. It reaffirms our faith in the present time only. But, never ignore past and future; because the present becomes more colourful and energetic with a powerful experience of the past and our hopes become stress-free with a right utilisation of the present. Hence, it makes us action oriented, without which, our progress stops vehemently. It is a science of sequence.  Nature has enriched it through its automation. But, one needs to exercise his conscience while evaluating the Vedic doctrines, which are quite absolute, willful and inflamed. It ignites our emotion if rightly understood. Hence, let’s have this as a faith.

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LIFE AFTER RETIREMENT

Life after retirement is a bond-free life. Here, one becomes a free bird to roam around on his intellectual plain and thus, distributes his experiences free of cost among the aspirants. It is a stage of reformation through the settlement of thoughts. At this stage, one’s thought process reforms, everyone, essentially and initiates the world. No doubt, it is a stage of relaxation, but the reality of life begins here to face essential challenges among the youth while shaping and reshaping them mentally, spiritually, emotionally, socially, intellectually and economically. Manhood never progresses without them; because, this stage is a kind of wheel on the cart of the progress. One should exercise his intuition rightly at this stage. One should be a pillar of assurance for the posterity; because assurance very often brings aspiration in life. It is a symbol of success.

Hence, it is the right time to cultivate the essence of success. Here, one dreams a greater world in the green. This is a stage of rejuvenation, a stage of affirmation, a stage of acceleration. One’s noble ideas come together to fight against obstacles of life. It is not the end of experiences, but, a stage of multiplication. The youth begins here in a real sense. One shows his real ability at this stage only, which he could not have proved in the past. Opportunity comes here to experience and experiment life. Free and perpetual thought influence the mass at this stage only. Intellectual maturity helps one to exercise benevolent command over the social set-up around him. The evolutionary experience becomes a guiding spirit for self and others. Hence, let’s enjoys this life that fills us with a new thrill with all positivity of life. 

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                                                                 Life after marriage

Marriage is a sacred bond of two souls. It is a sacred understanding between them. It is again, a selfless union of two mental entity. It is a debt of previous birth. It is a mindset to adjust according to situation with challenge. Here, challenge means, challenge to face every odd and obstacles of life along with good days. Now, let us see where and whom to marry. According to psychologists and scientists, marriage should not be between two blood relations because it causes both physical and mental disorder. Hence, distant marriage is preferably advisable because, this kind of marriage is comparatively more fruitful. That is why, in ancient times, ‘Varnashankara’ marriage was preferred too. In Varnashankara marriage, the off springs become more intelligent. We see several examples of Varnashankara marriage in ancient time.

Now let us examine how one can smoothen his or her married life. Certain amount of mental and physical preparation is highly essential before marriage, because, without preparation, one cannot face situations completely new to life. It is a thrilling experience for both the bride and the groom.

                               After marriage, one should be very careful to handle situations and should give attention to the following factors -

1.       One should develop caring attitude for all the members of the family. Here family refers to both the families of the bride and the groom. To be more precise, both of them should see the welfare of their respective kith and kin. Both of them should realize that, the God has created them for each other and hence, they should live for each other. At the same time, both of them live for others too. They should develop convincing nature in them that minimizes misunderstanding. In other words, we call it ‘Adaptability’.  

     Here, one should note that, ‘Adaptability’ leads to leadership quality in man and leadership quality helps a person to organize small family matter smoothly. Leadership quality initiates tolerant capacity in man. Hence, after marriage one should tolerate others with patience and pleasing attitude and co-operative tendency. While leading a family, one should ignore small family matters that disrupts the calm family atmosphere.

2.       After marriage, one should be away from inertia and must accept all changes that come on his way. Both wife and husband should treat each other from the psychological point of view. That means psychotherapy is more important than any other therapy. Both of them should talk logically. Consequently, it will reduce chaos and confusion in family matters. Before giving any opinion in family matters, one should have a rethought to the respective issues. While participating in the family discussion, one should accept everything very lightly and should behave softly, taking into consideration others emotions.

3.       One should give top priority to the welfare of family matters. Moreover, one must develop a spiritual environment in family that has a positive impact on everyone. One must shoulder responsibility without hesitation while in and outside the family. One must develop work culture attitude that strengthens the family life. One must know all the members of the family must take each other’s suggestion and advice whenever required. Both wife and husband should have equal share in family matters. Wife must consider husband’s advice, if logical.  However, husbands should not ignore wife’s right advice too. Both of them should develop child caring attitude, since the child can learn it in future. While winning others emotions, one should not ignore self too. It is vital because, self-caring attitude can only bring success in life after marriage.

Hence, there is a saying -

        Agar kisiko jitna chahta,

        pehele khud ko jitna padta…!!

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How Satisfaction and Success are related

       We know that, satisfaction comes out of success and success is a kind of satisfaction. Both are two sides of a same coin. They come to man in a packet when man reaches at his destination. They focus more on ‘what a man ought to be’, but not ‘what a man must be’. To be more precise, they are more or less passion oriented but not profession oriented. Because, passion can only bring satisfaction and success, but profession brings money for a man. They do not fulfill the desire of man, but calculates the amount of capability in him to achieve something. They concentrate more on the theory of ‘Action’ (Karma) i.e. ‘Work according to ability’. We measure them by peace, but not by monetary benefit. They focus on the concentration level of man because man goes out of his orbit when concentration is lost. In spite of failure and difficulty, they are keener to materialize one’s passion. They come to operate through the positive angle of life because positive thinking can only help one to materialize passion.

       Every cloud is an unseen benefit for man who wants to achieve satisfaction and success. Satisfaction and success cannot come through comparison rather they come through cultivation. One must discover his ability to cultivate it properly. Profession sometimes brings success through encouragement or inspiration. However, it is short-lived. We call this kind of success imitation, but not the original one.

 Hence, we can conclude, satisfaction and success come to those who can sustain against adversity and this adversity must go with goodwill, reasoning, benevolent attitude, right direction, ideology and above all self-care. Hence, it says-

Santosh ka koi naam nahin hai

benaam to woh hota,

Insaan jab safal hota

Santosh to wohi kehelata…!

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How Open-mindedness helps for a balanced life

A ventilated mind is a gift of God, which means “open-mindedness”. Our mind has several windows, which one must open properly and purposefully. A ventilated mind can produce human qualities like - love, respect, caring attitude, kindness etc. It strengthens ethical values of life.

 A couple with open-minds respect each other’s emotions and ignores unnecessary arguments for minor matters. They observe each other’s activity silently from a distant corner, but do not pass any negative comment that hurts emotion. Open-minded couple neither entertain parental interference   in their domain of activity. They love each other ‘in spite of’, but not ‘because of’. Their relation never fails on the ground of ego complex. They realize that the God has made them for each other. They respect each other’s capability, but never become each other’s weakness. They support each other irrespective of situation. Self-pride never comes in between them. Above all, acceptance and concern make their relation healthy.