Saturday, 7 December 2019

Stay tuned to my blog- HOW TO CREATE A BARRIER FREE SOCIETY WHILE IMPLEMENTING INC LUSIVE EDUCATION SYSTEM?



Inclusive education system is not mere a verbal declaration but a kind of inner intensive awareness. It connects one with the divinity through direct realization. We cannot materialize this system mechanically rather it is an attitude of devotion, which elevates one to the height of contemplation, in which exalted state the ego becomes almost negated. One must keep his mind alert and quiet under all circumstances while creating a barrier free society for differently abled children. One must consider the phenomenal value of inclusive education system while creating a barrier free society for it. One’s identity is truly realized by implementing this system.
      A close observation of lower mind is an essential phenomenon while creating a barrier free society for inclusive education system. Because, it needs maintenance of mental purity without getting involved in any form of worldly temptation. The most important point one must remember while creating a barrier free society for inclusive education system is that one must penetrate into the various aspects of the child’s mind without choice and awareness. Because, only through this penetration one can enter into the psychological kingdom of a child freely and frequently. This free and frequent access helps one to short-list the difficulties faced by a differently abled child in open educational field and one can draw inference to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system. The beauty of this system is truly realized here.
      Friends, we must reduce and remove all kinds of impure elements from the mind through deep meditation for creating a barrier free society while implementing inclusive education system. Because, only through purity of thought, we can put our intellectual ideas on a right platform to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system. Here, our spiritual vision opens to the divine light giving wisdom of reality. Moreover, our wisdom plays a key role to attract people to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system.
Again, our wisdom leads us to self-transformation, which fights against all barriers of the mind. Hence, we can say, one needs spiritual liberation to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system. Our divine ideas need to be re-discovered for successful implementation of this system. Our “self” is the only barrier to this system.
Therefore, self-realization and reformation keep meaning and significance to everything in life because, in this state of mind one reaches at the stage of complete surrender to the divine inner power. It supplies our body and mind with renewed energy to cope with worldly problems of society appear against inclusive education system.
Again, while creating a barrier free society for inclusive education system, one must have a sense of peace and happiness while serving a differently abled child. Again, that should be no fear, friction and resistance. One must feel rejuvenated by this. Because, through this rejuvenation only one becomes open to all and reach to the core of the heart of every aspirant around him. Our tremendous spiritual energy takes us to the eternal kingdom to justify the need of the differently abled child on a right footing in right time.   
Friends, again I would like to put forth my argument before you that a stress-free mind can initiate a barrier free society for inclusive education system. Because, only a stress free mind understands correctly and honestly the cardinal principles of inclusive education system, which speaks on elementary knowledge of humanity. We can implement this system of education rightly through our spiritual vision only. Here, I would like to connect progress and peace of mind. Because, without peace of mind progress is just an oasis. Hence, we need a still and calm mind to draw divine attribute of the differently abled children and place them on the main stream of life through inclusive education system. Once we discover the divine secret in them, a positive acceptance of everything would be easier. In this state of mind, normal human would be defensive for the other end spontaneously. 
 Next, I would like to impress upon you that our trust and confidence in the differently abled children would create a barrier free society for inclusive education system. Because, this trust and confidence in them is a kind of submission to the divinity within. It takes one far beyond the confines of mere mind and intellect. Here, one finds himself within the circle of reason and logic and in the unfathomable depth of the supreme silence. Again, we must pursuit the strength of mind in them. We must discover aspiring seekers – as a matter of fact, these aspiring seekers would act as divine faculties to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system. In addition to this, divine fellowship and spiritual organization play a vital role to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system. Because, they impart spiritual training and initiates the disciples to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system.
Now friends, let me clarify about divine wisdom. Divine wisdom always advances in the higher aspect of life. Our day-to-day divine experience is our best achievement. It is unseen but powerful. It is untouched but influential. Hence, let us examine our mystical divine experience from a close angle, while creating a barrier free society for inclusive education system.
Are we really doing justice by putting the differently abled children behind the bar? Is it not the sacred duty of a responsible citizen to bring those special categories of people into light? Can we not justify their special qualities with our intuition? The process of development is unfinished without them. They are physically varied but not disabled. Let us accept them, adapt them, analyze them, and understand them. They are the gift of divinity. Enormous possibility is in them.
Friends, our society is still in a state of imperfection. We need to cultivate our self-knowledge carefully and honestly. We need to develop our power of contemplation and the capacity to awaken the soul from the slumber. The path is now open. Let us accept the absolute through reality. The process of progress is yet to complete. Let us discover the eternal truth behind the progress. Let us do away with the hindrances with our intellectual formula. Let us explore the natural technological urge in divine source. Let us search each other through brotherly-hood. Perfection is already present in us. It is pure and free. It is delighted too. Let us awaken it for the greater possibility to create a barrier free society for inclusive education system. Let us examine our purity once again.
 Friends, a barrier free society for inclusive education system is not possible without love and sacrifice. Here, love means not an autocratic command rather it is a democratic demand. It is based on the principle of truth and faith. Here, our unitary faith stands forth as something manifestly clear without in anyway renouncing mystery. It has two axiomatic certainties. One concerning the principle, which is both being and beyond – being, and the other concerning manifestation, both formal and supra formal.
So friends, it is a matter free from ABHIMAN. Hence, I would say –

“Ghar mai agar andhkaar ho
Mehman kahan se aye,
Man mai agar andhakaar ho
Bhagbaan kahan se aye?”

      Differently abled children are like divine guest free from worldly complicacy. Therefore, to greet the divine guest we must have the sense of right perception. Because perception and perfection always move on an equal dimension. They teach us about the existence of others in us. They teach about the actuality of others. However, we people are still in illusion. They take us off illusion. They make us understand about the actual entities than we are.
Friends, inclusive education system believes in VEDANTIC IDEALISM, which believes in absolute philosophy. A society can be absolute if it is free from all kinds of barriers. It includes both economic and socio-psychological barriers. Hence, while looking for a greater society, let us consider esoteric teaching. Because, esotericism teaching is based on objective idealism. According to this philosophy, ‘the universe is evolved out of its ideal plane, upheld through eternity in the unconsciousness of PARAMBRAHMA’. Hence, let us feel that PARAMBRAHMA in us while creating a barrier free society for successful implementation of inclusive education system. Everything is finite and perishable only in their objective, not in their ideal form. Our ideas exist here from time to time. They exist here as reflection. Hence, let us examine ourselves in a barrier free society. We are no way inferior to Ram and Krishna. However, we are not able to discover our divine quality in us being surrounded by MAYA i.e. illusion.
Therefore, let us join our hands to come out of that MAYA unitedly and say –
 “ ham jarur honge kamiyab,
wah din jarur ayega….
 aj nahin to kaal ..
ham jarur honge kamiyab .”      

Monday, 28 October 2019

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Spiritual law is a kind of divine experience that acts always in one direction only. It is enriched with Godly elements like, love, compassion, caring, bliss and forgiveness etc. It is a believe system based on relative theory; because, when something is good for one it is bad for others. It punishes bad people while awards the good one. While in force, it never differentiates between rich and poor. It is above status and passion. It acts through three kinds of actions or KARMA- i.e. individual action, family action and collective action. It acts on a principle of exploration; because, whatever one does under this law, search or explore - may be of the body, mind or relation. Some termed it as exploitation. However, in real sense it is a divine thrilling experience. Everyone should have this experience to realize his/her real existence on this earth. It never allows greed and ego to grow under its feet; because they cause mental catastrophe. It is an index of purity, perfection, power and love that help one for flourishing and makes cheerful. It vibrates the soul that causes one to act with divinity. 
According to this law, everything is our own creation only. Our creations act upon ourselves only. Thereby, it generates an energy that influences the environment around us. If the energy is good, it acts for benevolence; if not, it causes destruction. However, it cannot go back in the opposite direction. Hence, one must be judgmental while exploring nature under the law failing which it would invite destruction. Again, it collects resources from nature and executes them in day today life. Hence, one must keep his surrounding free from pollution that causes ‘TAMASIKA’ thought in human mind. The Geeta says-
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Sunday, 22 September 2019

Stay tuned to my blog- " How can we justify our Education? ". click here to read more.....



Education is the “voice of silence” that commands the human to look inward. Because ‘looking within” initiates genuine thinking. Hence, real education pays close attention to one’s own thoughts. Wherever thought struggles to be free, opportunity knocks at our door. This freedom of thought allows the mind to grow independently and this helps one seeking the self. Therefore, education is a kind of “self- seeking phenomena” that stops reacting to stimuli from without.
 Education is a state of mind that initiates one to find his secret self that refers to one’s perplexities. It awakens our inner self always. It is a set of principle, which brings revolution in thinking process. It is a free speculation on the vastness of space. It passes through the infinity of time and ceaseless repetitive cycles. It cultivates the possibility of intelligence in the universe. It creates an independent thinker ahead of race presenting ideas commonly accepted by the posterity. It is a kind of inspiration. That stands against all kind of challenges. It values the present scenario only. It speaks about the origin and evolution of the universe that comes out of lonely thought.
 Education urges one to acquire the knowledge of supreme soul scientifically while verifying the accuracy and value of a particular system meant for the welfare of the human race as a whole. Our lonely thought plays a key role to systematize this cultivation, which makes us truly wise to face the challenges of self. It justifies our requirement to the need of time through classical experiments. Every desire of the human passes through a litmus test through right kind of education only that arises from the imagination and subdued with the mind and at the same time it has a tremendous command over our senses and organs, which impel to action in every direction processed by patience.
 Education fixes our aim if goes on a right direction. One can create everything out of nothing through value-based education. It resettles our inconstant mind and seeks unity of all things perceiving the supreme soul. The Buddha had experimented this noble concept through his eight-folded path and Mahavira through his five vows.  One understands the present life system rightly through educational value only. Education synthesizes every wave of thought and acts as a connecting bridge between past, present and future. It is the strength of mind, which everyone should have in them.   
                                                       
                                

Monday, 29 July 2019

Stay tuned to my blog- 'How can one sustain in everybody' . click here to read more....



A soul can sustain in everybody only through his personality that enables one to transmit his energy and vibration to every nook and corner of the universe. It is just like fragrance of a flower or smell of perfume that spreads all around. Personality is a symbol of purity that helps one for progress that keeps one healthy, wealthy and happy. It has an amazing effect on our mind, reforms one both externally and internally and stimulates our relation with everyone. We can sustain ourselves in others, if we strengthen our relation. While sustaining in others, one is free to think and act according to his will. However, he cannot produce the result himself.  Because, he has many desires in him. Hence, while trying to sustain in others forever one must manage his desire carefully to the need of the time, failing which his desires will kill him instead of healing him.     
            Hence, one must escape himself carefully from the perils of desire while sustaining in others not being a slave; because, slavery can never demand any sovereignty. Again, one must lead his life naturally while sustaining in others; because, only through natural process everything flows automatically without any pressure or expectation. Here, dependency becomes less influential. Consequently, one can change himself freely and perpetually that helps for sustainability.
Again, one must keep quiet being a silent observer to sustain in others; because only through silence, one can concentrate in something, which would help him to go in to the deep and thus, he becomes fearless. Fear generates sadness and depression in man. If once depression comes in man, it will kill his/her sustainability and thus, confidence is lost. Hence, while sustaining in other, one must manage one’s confidence level carefully and consciously.

Tuesday, 16 July 2019

Stay tuned to my blog- ' What is God' . Click here to read more..


The God is above space and time. He is one and unique. He has no shape, no weight and no smell even. One can feel Him through experience only, but cannot touch Him. He is omnipotent and omnipresent. He cannot be felt or realized by any machine, not even by any portrait or temple. He is in every living element. He needs no medium and no mediator. He is above ‘KLESHA’, ‘AHANKARA’, ‘ASMITA’, ‘AVIDYA’, ‘RAGA’, ‘ABHINIVESHA’ and ‘VIPAKA’. He is an invisible idol. He is ‘SAGUNA’ and ‘NIRGUNA’ both. One can attain Him through ‘VRATA’ or ‘SANKALPA’. ‘SHRADDHA’ is the only basic need to attain Him. Pure knowledge, pure action and pure ‘UPASANA’ etc. are some basic steps to reach the God. He is not the growing grass during rainy season that vanishes in the summer.
He is an imperishable energy that inspires us, initiates us and accelerates us whenever and wherever needed. However, one must realize this energy through experience and save it carefully. Again, it is just a motivation that acts upon us automatically for a right purpose and distinguishes between right and wrong. It is a path to salvation. It teaches us four basic elements or concepts-
*      SATYAM (the truth)
*      PRIYAM (love)
*      HITAM (benevolence)
*      ANUDBEGAM (non-anxiety)
He is silent and non-reactive; but acts effectively to shape and reshape the mankind. One must realize this through perseverance and initiation. He can initiate our inner spirit and heals us every time.   

Monday, 6 May 2019


Stay tuned to my blog - ' What is History' ? Click here to read more.....


History is a kind of literature, which seeks to promote greater unity and understanding among the mankind. It forms a nucleus of the universal brother-hood of humanity without distinction of race, creed, sex, cast or colour. The corresponding first principle of this subject is to discover the hidden ideas systematically tabled to organize and renovate the young-minds.

History is a subject of hope, inspiration and symbolic truth that opens and rejuvenates our youth against undesirable social engineering. It is a study of interdependence and cooperation that has a deep root in social, economical, and political sector. It teaches us about people of different ethnic groups and cultures that makes us think and feel something deep. It is not merely a nice presentation of sentimental ideas or even is a beautiful ideal to which one would subscribe rather it is a set of social principle found throughout the universal mechanism. Above all, it is an inherent law by which the world is put together. Its modern idea is one of wholeness in which the entire humanity is interrelated in such a way that change of one element produces change throughout the whole.

 Hence, one cannot escape involvement in its wholeness, because this essential unity transcends all differences. Without its harmonious basis our posterity can’t leave on the earth. It is a unitary creative fountain from which the prolific variety of forms arises. Its evolutionary process keeps our relationship safe and secure through its countless forms and substances. In its infinity of interpersonal relationship it binds us together.
 Let’s join our hands to form harmonious wholeness that contains energy of an atom in it. Spiritual meaning of our human relationship is an urgent necessity of the time, which can only be realized through this subject. In the light of world events, it is being increasingly recognized through its spiritual entity with many experimental phenomena of the world. Its process of evolution relates to the enforcement of individual consciousness. It initiates the trend towards the development and growth of individual uniqueness. Let us examine and experience it once.                                                                                                                                                                                    

Wednesday, 1 May 2019

Stay tuned to my blog- 'Why does sadness come in human' ? click here to read more....



We can define ‘sadness’ as “self-acquired depression that has a negative effect on social setup”. It is just a relative term that differs from person to person and from place to place. It causes out of dissatisfaction in the social setup. It comes in human mind when one is jealousy to others development or cannot appreciate other’s achievement or has revengeful attitude or is disturbed in physical comfort or has feeling of comparison or has competent spirit and above all is afraid of death. The above circumstances are related to spiritual sadness.
The second kind of sadness is material sadness. It causes not by self, but by others. This type of sadness comes in human when others affect his/her pride. Everyone is a replica of the God, but the Godly quality has to be cultivated; failing which one cannot be the God.
Similarly, the third kind of sadness is ADIDAIVIKA sadness, which is related to natural objects. All the above types of sadness cause discomfort in human.
The above three kinds of sadness are broadly divided into two categories-
*      Sadness caused due to imbalance of thought.
*      Sadness caused due to imbalance of incidence.
Therefore, by balancing thought wave and by developing non-attachment attitude, one can reduce his sadness. Besides that one can reduce sadness by avoiding bad company, by developing proper judgment capacity, by not working beyond capacity and above all by being attentive to his/her own life.
                        Now let us examine, why is sadness a mental concept?  
One’s look towards the social set up around him/her influences his/her life. All his/her creations are the outcome of his/her attitude towards the human kind. One’s sadness is more influenced by his/her capacity-building mechanism. It comes due to hollowness of one’s mentality. Here, hollowness means, desperation. It again, refers to desire. Here, desires are of two kinds- such as, material desire and psychological desire. Material desire means, desire to get different kinds of materials non-available to human. Such as, things needed to comfort one’s life. However, psychological desire means, a kind of apprehension to lose different materials available with him/her. Hence, out of the above mental condition sadness comes in human.
Under the above circumstances, one should realize his capacity while putting his/her desire; because, capacity of a person decides his/her fortune. According to the psychologists, sadness is an experience related to one’s KARMAPHALA of the previous birth. This experience and KARMAPHALA are of two kinds. One is bitter experience and other is sweet experience. Sadness comes out of bitter experience, which is an expression of weak mental strength. Hence, one should make his mind like a lotus leave; that means one should come over all kinds of incidence without being attached to eat. In SANSKRIT we call it “NIRLIPTA”. Therefore, we can say when human desires to get comfort out of any material it causes sadness in him/her. Loneliness sometimes generates sadness too. Here, loneliness means, waiting for someone who seems to own. Nevertheless, if one expands his heart he can have connectivity throughout the world, which never causes sadness.   



Thursday, 14 March 2019

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We can define ‘sadness’ as “self-acquired depression that has a negative effect on social setup”. It is just a relative term that differs from person to person and from place to place. It causes out of dissatisfaction in the social setup. It comes in human mind when one is jealousy to others development or cannot appreciate other’s achievement or has revengeful attitude or is disturbed in physical comfort or has feeling of comparison or has competent spirit and above all is afraid of death. The above circumstances are related to spiritual sadness.
The second kind of sadness is material sadness. It causes not by self, but by others. This type of sadness comes in human when others affect his/her pride. Everyone is a replica of the God, but the Godly quality has to be cultivated; failing which one cannot be the God.
Similarly, the third kind of sadness is ADIDAIVIKA sadness, which is related to natural objects. All the above types of sadness cause discomfort in human.
The above three kinds of sadness are broadly divided into two categories-
*      Sadness caused due to imbalance of thought.
*      Sadness caused due to imbalance of incidence.
Therefore, by balancing thought wave and by developing non-attachment attitude one can reduce his sadness. Besides that one can reduce sadness by avoiding bad company, by developing proper judgment capacity, by not working beyond capacity and above all by being attentive to his/her own life.

Friday, 22 February 2019

Stay tuned to my blog- 'HOW TO REPAY DEBTS' . click here to read more...


In the previous chapter, we have already noted down the kinds of debts and meeting of debts. One must repay the same at any cost at any point of time; if not in this birth the next; because, it is a kind of energy, which is indestructible. By reading good books, one can acquire good information and can distribute it among people, which is a kind of repayment of debt. Inspiring others to do good things through “SWADHYAYA” or self-analysis is another kind of repayment. One should accept or confess his mistakes for the welfare of society, which is too a kind of repayment. While performing duty, one should analyze the past, which is a kind of repayment. Reformed children can repay debt by performing their duty properly towards their parents. Again, by building a child properly, one can repay his debt. Besides the above, helping disabled persons, speaking the truth, working for the peace and security of others, performing social duty etc. are some kinds of repayment. In the process of repayment, money is devalued. Hence, we can say, repayment of debt is nothing but one’s social duty for the cause of greater benefit of society. Debt is always associated with relation, which has to be maintained by economic strength, understanding, sacrifice, love, kindness etc. More clearly speaking, relation is the outcome of necessity. Establishing relation with someone is a kind of repayment of debt; because, in a family even we pay each other’s debt that we had in the previous birth. After the repayment is completed, the soul goes away to its destination. We call it “death”. Hence, everything in the universe is related through a kind of debt, which is otherwise defined- DONETION ESSENTIAL TO MAKE THE BOND TRUSTWORTHY.

Saturday, 16 February 2019

Stay tuned to my blog- ' Why does one take birth repeatedly' . click here to read more...



Human is the highest form of living creature on this earth. He/she is the supreme of all on this earth. He/she comes here owing to his/her “KARMAPHALA”, i.e. due to his/her good deeds. He/she comes to this earth to repay his/her debts of previous birth, which we call “Relation”. He/she repays his/her debts in different forms. For example, cow gives us milk; dog watches our home and bullock ploughs our land etc.
This debt of human is of different kinds, such as- “PITRU-RUNA” (debt of father), “MATRU-RUNA” (debt of mother), “RISHI-RUNA” (debt of sages), “DEBA-RUNA” (debt of the God), “ATITHI-RUNA” (debt of guest). In a general sense, debt means, to take something from others for time being. However, philosophically we can define it differently; because, it refers to the theory or connectivity of souls. Different souls are connected through this concept knowingly or unknowingly.
Hence, we can define debt as “Donation essential to make the bond trustworthy”. Human has different kinds of relation-bonds, such as- bond with mother, bond with father, bond with sages, bond with teachers etc. All these bonds are considered as the God; because, he/she gets benefit from them. Hence, all kinds of bond he/she has are bond of the God (Deba-runa). Therefore, he/she comes to this earth repeatedly to repay his/her debts.
He/she is indebted to nature too. Here, nature means, air, water, soil and trees etc. because, they too play a great role for a healthy life of human. Hence, he/she has a sense of responsibility towards these natural objects. He/she can repay his/her debts to these objects of nature by controlling pollution. By reading different books, one can control pollution and inspire others for the same. Not only that, human comes to the earth just to realize his mistake and by this he/she repays the debts of nature; because, acceptance of mistake brings realization in him/her and reforms him/her ultimately.          

Monday, 4 February 2019

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There is a saying, ‘right direction is the key of success. However, right direction must be followed by right determination. When right direction and right determination go together, right knowledge comes to human. One’s power of determination becomes more sharpen when he/she has deep interest to do something. So, the Geeta says-
                                                     “¸ÉrùÉ´ÉÉ&±É¦ÉiÉä \ÉÉxÉÆ iÉiÉÂ{É®ú& ºÉªÉÆiÉäÎxpùªÉ&;
                 \ÉÉxÉÆ ±É¤v´ÉÉ {É®úÉÆ ¶ÉÉÎxiɨÉÊSÉ®äúhÉÉÊvÉMÉUôÊiÉ*”

This power of determination means, “VRATA” or “DIKSHYA”, for which one needs a teacher or “GURU”; because, one cannot have complete knowledge without a right teacher.
            Now, let us see, who can be a real Guru or right teacher? A right teacher is one, who knows the Veda; a person well versed in the Veda is “SHROTRIYA”. Hence, “SHROTRIYA” is one of the qualities of a right Guru. The second important feature of the Guru is “BRAHMANISTHA”, which means who knows about ATMA and PARAMATMA or relation between the soul and the God. Hence, a Guru acts as a light-post. Under his able guidance, one can have right direction and right determination; consequently, one can take right decision.
Great people say that a Guru is like a living “GRANTHA” or scripture; because, he has all the qualities that a “GRANTHA” has. Here, “GRANTHA” stands for scientific knowledge. So also, a Guru directs his disciples scientifically while taking decision. One’s right direction, right determination, right decision generate right happiness and this happiness leads one towards awareness. Once awareness is on, one becomes a benevolent soul; because, he/she can distinguish between right and wrong easily by applying his/her sixth sense.
Determination power can give one “MOKSHYA” or “NIRVANA”, which no Guru can give. He can only show the right path. It is the disciple to walk on that path. Hence, Guru is not the sole authority of the universe. He is only a spiritual platform on which one can experiment and expose himself in right direction. It is only a route to reach the destination. A Guru cannot walk on that; because, he has many things to do or has a vast responsibility to deliver. Hence, we can call him rightly a right instrument or “SHADHANA". According to the law of the universe, a right teacher repays his debt of his previous birth to his disciples by imparting right knowledge.
 Hence, while attaining perfection, one should see carefully that he is under a right teacher. Three ‘D’s can produce a great ‘H’. That means right direction, right determination and right decision can produce right happiness.       

Wednesday, 23 January 2019

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The concept of old age home is very ancient. In ancient time, it was a place of spiritual center. It was a center of welfare then; because, all persons used to sit there to share their experiences and thereby they could able to solve different critical problems of their successors. Hence, it had a noble purpose, they enjoyed each other’s company and it was a place to pass their leisurely hours. All people used to be there at their own sweet will to spend time and whenever required they could come back home. However, gradually this concept has been polluted due to different causes. Now, people go to old age home by force. Now a day it is more or less psychology based. It has become indispensable for the old people; because, they feel unsecured in the family with their offspring. They are more or less uncaring in many cases. They feel lonely inside the family round the clock; because, the youngsters do not need their advice; neither they talk to them nor share any feelings with them.
Old people, now a day no way attach to any family affairs. What is scarce today is the time with the youngsters; they can spend money for their old parents, but cannot give time. However, old people need the attention of their children. When they do not get this, they feel depressed. Sometimes, the children’s attention and caring attitude seem to be an apparent. Due to this vanity and ill temperament of the children, the relation between the young and the old has been termed as sandwich relation. Therefore, in the old age home, they get relief from this sandwich generation relation. Here, they get family atmosphere among the friends; they learn self-help. Psychologically they become sound too. Their psychosomatic problem is solved by sharing their feelings with their friends. Here, they get community support, medical support and true friend circle.   
Here, one should note, that old people are likes small children. The youngster should remind their child-hood days while taking care of the old parents. While strengthening their parental bond, they old psychology must be consider. They should check the concept of nucleus family system. They must give a high value to sacrifice, love and kindness etc. while cultivating relation.