A soul can sustain
in everybody only through his personality that enables one to transmit his
energy and vibration to every nook and corner of the universe. It is just like
fragrance of a flower or smell of perfume that spreads all around. Personality
is a symbol of purity that helps one for progress that keeps one healthy,
wealthy and happy. It has an amazing effect on our mind, reforms one both
externally and internally and stimulates our relation with everyone. We can
sustain ourselves in others, if we strengthen our relation. While sustaining in
others, one is free to think and act according to his will. However, he cannot
produce the result himself. Because, he
has many desires in him. Hence, while trying to sustain in others forever one
must manage his desire carefully to the need of the time, failing which his
desires will kill him instead of healing him.
Hence, one must escape himself
carefully from the perils of desire while sustaining in others not being a
slave; because, slavery can never demand any sovereignty. Again, one must lead
his life naturally while sustaining in others; because, only through natural
process everything flows automatically without any pressure or expectation.
Here, dependency becomes less influential. Consequently, one can change himself
freely and perpetually that helps for sustainability.
Again, one must keep quiet being a silent observer to sustain in others;
because only through silence, one can concentrate in something, which would
help him to go in to the deep and thus, he becomes fearless. Fear generates
sadness and depression in man. If once depression comes in man, it will kill
his/her sustainability and thus, confidence is lost. Hence, while sustaining in
other, one must manage one’s confidence level carefully and consciously.