Sunday, 4 September 2016

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How can one lead a happy married life?
Marriage is a social understanding. It is a reformation of both body and mind. It is just a special ability to take some responsibility of the family, society and country all together. It is nothing but a free service for the benevolence of humanity. It is a sacred union between two souls, which is pure and prospective. It fulfills a particular objective predefined and predestined by the almighty. So we can say marriages are made in heaven. Here the spouse treats each other from the psychological point of view because for any miss communication their lives become an island of tragedy. Here love plays a key role, which is nothing but a psychological social and logical balance.
Here one should remember that this relation must be free from friction because its good and bad impact effect both the partners equally.  Hence, marriage is just an oath between two souls for the welfare of the family in practical and the country in general. It reforms one’s thought process, judgement taking capacity, etc. It reminds one’s social duty towards humanity. It reminds us that this earth is a short stay home, where one has to deliver his responsibility properly and after completion of it, he goes away to the original source. Hence, here proper reciprocation matters much than anything else. Lie has no place here. Its foundation must be laid by the truth, love, scarifies, understanding etc. It is important that the above qualities must not be backed by force; rather these qualities must flow spontaneously. One cannot be responsible by force because if force is withdrawn, he becomes the cause of destruction. Again, one must be open minded, doubtless character, non-reactive, supportive to each other, cool minded, away from bhogabada, away from self- appraisal to lead a happy married life. Hence, we can define marriage as a mental association for rehabilitation and reorganization of an institution arranged by God forever.            


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