Why is marriage essential
in life?
It has been accepted by
many ancient sages and philosophers that marriage is indispensable in social
life because it brings completeness in life. It does not mean 'bhoga' or beauty
rather it means a sense of social duty and scarifies, because 'bhoga' and beauty
cannot satisfy one in every condition permanently. Hence, we can say it is a
kind of social responsibility that reforms one to carry out a certain social
order for the growth of social set up. Hence, it is rather an institution
arranged by the God forever to fulfill a particular aim in life. Hence, we can
define marriage as “mental association of rehabilitation and reorganization of an
institution arranged by the God forever”.
Here spouses are like two
wheels, which one must balance by pure love. One must strengthen this relation
by facts but not by fiction. Because, if anything goes wrong in their relation,
it has its effects to both the party. Hence, it is just an oath for social
benevolence. It reforms our thought, speech, action, mind, judgement and
expectation etc. It teaches us about the true reciprocation system. One can
learn value of mutual understanding out of it. The truth must be its input and
spontaneous open love must be its salient feature. For a successful married
life initiation must be right and without doubt. Again, it should be free from
unnecessary reaction and decision must be democratic. Thus, it teaches us about
supportive character. Above all, it stands for scarifies but not for self-appraisal.
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