HOW UNDERSTANDING HELPS TO SMOOTH RELATION?
Understanding means,
co-ordination among members- this may be among the members of family, may be
among the members of office or among the members of society, we live in. Hence,
understanding may be of different categories like, personal understanding and
impersonal understanding. Understanding of self with family members, kin and
kith and relations are personal understanding. Understanding in office and
profession is impersonal understanding. Personal understanding is a kind of
individual understanding; because, it relates to self or individual only. However,
impersonal understanding means, collective understanding; because, it relates
to a group of people or collection of people. But, in every case of
understanding, it refers to connectivity of soul.
Understanding plays a great role in developing good relation; because,
here every soul enjoys optimum freedom without any external pressure. Here,
matching of quality maters much than anything else. Here, quality refers to
mentality of different souls. Here, members of a particular field share and
care for each other irrespective of their differences. They respect to each
other’s sentiment. They are above liking, disliking, love and scorn. They are
just connected to each other to build relation. Understanding helps the souls
to enhance capacity of tolerance and for collective decision that means, they
sink together and swim together. Here, collective positive thought over rules
negative thought. On the platform of understanding problem and solution go
together. Here, members act efficiently without much personal expectation;
rather, their field of action is more concerned to collective benefit.
Co-operation and co-ordination help them for quick solution. They go on
contributing things without selfish ends.
Here, their selfless contribution brings auto solution. Here, ego is
automatically suppressed and on the contrary emotional maturity level is
increased. Emotion gains importance. Here, the members realize concept of peace.
Here, decision of the heart becomes more effective than the decision of the
mind; because, heart analyzes positive things; but, mind receives everything
without analysis. Here, people do not become over ambitious that causes dissatisfaction.
Here, devotion matters much than anything; because, BHAKTI or devotion
generates love and love generates understanding. “GYANA MARGA” fails here,
because, it stands on logic. Logic does not work while people have
understanding. They realize value of sacrifice to attain peace. For them
sacrifice and satisfaction are two sides of a coin that cause for mutual
understanding. Jeevan Tatwa says-
" जब जब मन में तूफान उठता ,
समझोता उसको उड़ा के लेता । "
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